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We are surrounded around different types of people. Among them , we get to choose someone with whom we decide to spend our life. Well sometime this decisions don’t look good ahead in future but still we try hard to continue it. Here is a short story of Aisha who suffers from a bad relationship but continues to give one last chance to her husband.
“Give me one last chance, It won’t be repeated.” He begged.
This is just like every time.
“Do I need to abide all this just because I am married to him?” Aisha asked to herself.
Since the day Ryan started abusing her, she is repeatedly giving him the last chance which he begs for each day after exploiting her. These were chances or opportunities to bring it on again and again , she keeps imagining. But what she could do, her parents too asked her to grant her husband one last chance to fix his fault.
“Does this last chance journey have any border.”
She remembers how she convinced her parents to get married to her love Ryan. She remembers how much they both used to love each other and promise to stick until last breathe but everything got changed slowly. The man who used to admire her beauty is now destroying her face by beating her. Still she is giving him one last chance because she loves him.
He slept with his female co-worker, but she had to give him one last chance because she was carrying his baby.
At times she wanted to end this relationship but she was afraid what would people talk about her and also about her little daughter.
She endured everything for the right to come , continued giving him the chances which he never justified for.
She was ready with all the last chances until the day came when her daughter was also tortured by her father , until the day when her princess was slapped by her father and until when the daughter asked her “Why are we living with such a monster mama.”
WHY? This is the question every person going through such circumstances needs to ask oneself. Why in the name of marriage one has to put own dignity on stake?
A relationship requires equal effort from both sides. It is based on trust and love. If someone is putting his/her all effort and not receiving same it’s no more worth to continue such relationship.
This is not for a particular gender or group , anyone feeling or going through these situations are requested to end the relationship for their betterment. If one person is making the same mistake repeatedly that means he or she is habituated to it and have taken the other for granted. Letting these people to leverage your love and care , you don’t only hurt yourself but also to your closed ones. So here is the time to stop granting the chances. It’s better to give yourself a chance to move and grow.
Don’t let someone get comfortable with disrespecting you.
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