Hope you all are doing good today. March 08, International women’s day. Do we need a particular day to celebrate it? Because without women, a single day is incomplete. 😁
But if we got a single day, let’s celebrate it.
Happy women’s day to all the beautiful ladies there. ♥
Below is a short story I am grateful to share with you guys. Please leave your thoughts regarding this😊
After returning from the office, the husband noticed something different in his house. Everything was scattered there, the children were playing in their night suits. Their toys were all over the floor. Food was left uncovered on the dining table. The sofa was filled with dirty clothes. Tables were kept reversed on the floor. The kitchen was totally unorganized, with false pots. The bathroom was uncleaned.
He quacked with the thought that might be his wife is unwell and rushed to her room to check her. Reaching her room, he found that she was reading a novel resting on her armchair.
Seeing her husband, she smiled and asked: “How’s your day?”
Ignoring her question, he questioned her: “What’s wrong with the house today??”
Her reply: “You always ask what have I done today staying in the house, so today I haven’t done anything.”
This post is dedicated to all the women who devote their lives to the house, being a perfect wife and best mother, without spending a minute to work on themselves. The harsh thing is they can’t get enough credit for their work. People end their question asking what do they do all the day at home, considering that they just have to stay at home and sit idle.
The truth is life will stuck if they stop working.
A day of love when everyone was trying to enjoy Valentine’s Day in their own way.
The day was calm just like any other day until I open my facebook account. I was busy with scrolling my phone and suddenly got the shocking news that there is an attack in district of Pulwama in Jammu and Kashmir (India) , where 42 people were killed.
At least 40 CRPF personnel were killed and five others injured on Thursday in one of the deadliest terror attacks in Jammu and Kashmir when a Jaish-e-Mohammed suicide bomber rammed a vehicle carrying over 100kg of explosives into their bus in Pulwama disrict.
People say life is unpredictable, but taking a life cowardly by a suicide bomber is something more than vile. Heart cry hearing this brutal news.
The bomber was surely dead years ago when he entered in such brutal group. He might have left no love for his family but the soldiers he killed were having families waiting for their call or return at home.
Mother lose his brave boy whom she had raised for protecting the nation.
The father is still in grief but courageous enough to send his other son to fight.
A 3 year old son still does not know that his father is no more.
The baby girl who got her life just a month ago was waiting for her father to meet in person but now she will never be able to,
A wife desperately waiting for her husband’s call on Valentine’s day, broken with tears as she heard the news.
A soldier was so destroyed by the bomb, identified by his engagement ring.
Many more heartbreaking stories unsaid and unknown of fallen sons, fathers, brothers, husband, friends and of soldiers who bore the burnt of protecting us.
Yes they were protecting us. Today we Indians are full of anger and demanding for revenge. But will it last for a long time.
Here we are sad, angry etc. we will mourn over the death for a few days, put status and DP , complain about other people who will not do so , conduct candle march and discuss it for a few more days. Then things will become past just like 26/11 Mumbai attack or 16/12 Nirbhaya case. But the families who lost their loved ones will never be able to forget this nightmare even a single day for rest of their life. They will not settle their breathe until the culprit pays off.
But this time we too need to last our anger and frustration till our brave soldiers get justice. Let’s think of this issues above political, religious and others. It’s time to get united and demand for justice.
Let’s hope for the best.
May our brave brothers’ soul RIP and their families find peace.
What can be more joyful than celebrating your own countries cultures and festivals, staying in a different country?
Well, I already said, I am from India and currently residing in USA with my husband. It’s almost 10 months since I am living my life here and I am so delighted to see how our country’s festivals are celebrated here. Say it festivals like Diwali, Janmashtami, Makarsankranti, Navratra or National festivals like Independence Day, the different Indian communities celebrate it pleasingly. Not only festivals, our cultural forms of dancing and singing are also quiet populated here.
This blog is about a Dj party I got to attend last week in our Desi style. Hope you will love reading this.
Few days ago we attended a Bollywood Dj night. Yes, you heard this right Bollywood dj night here in USA. Before coming to this country I was actually upset with the thought that I am going to miss my college dj parties and friends, enjoying dancing in all bollywood and punjabi tracks. But I attended two bollywood dj parties with the same craziness and happiness till now.
About the DJ night
On 1st February, we went to attend the bollywood party in Plaza Maraiachi Music city (Live Music Venue) which got started with a live music by a beautiful singer Sharmishta Ganguly, who was singing our favourite hindi songs. The place was lovely surrounded by beautiful faces and it was so nice to see many Americans, dressed in indian attire and they were looking gorgeous.
Next was dance per formance by a dance group on the song ‘Pallo latke’ from the movie ‘Mere Shadi me jarur aana.’ The dancers also gave dance lessons on the same song and all ladies present there were following her.
The night also covered Tabla performance by a Tabla artist.
The next was DJ. We all know, one cannot stop themselves from dancing on bollywood tracks. So the hall was cheered up with footsteps when the DJ started. Dancing with our fellow americans in Indian tracks was something extraordinary. It was a memorable and crazy night.
It was fun for me and my friends and we ended the night by continuing the dance for almost 4 hours.
Thanks for reading my post. It was lovely sharing my experience with you all. Will write more about US life through my eyes.
Do you feel tired all the time? When you think about life nothing good comes in your mind or when a small problem strucks your way you have this feeling that why this has happened to you?
These things mean you are surrounded by negative vibes. These thinking doesn’ t allow us to live a happy and peaceful life. Everyone who has faced or is facing any kind of problems, stress, disbelief, knows how hard it is to stay positive in certain situations and sometimes a way out isn’t a solution. But the person who tries to keep away the negativity, learns to tackle the problems.
Keeping ourselves away from negativity isn’t easy as it sounds, but it’s something we all have inside of us and we just have to push it away. Nowadays, we are surrounded by stress because of work, personal problems or other and also very negative people. All these factors are building negative thoughts, sad life and lack of self confidence. We worry about our problems, finding their solution and about what people think about us.
Avoiding all these negative thoughts and becoming a happy person won’t come overnight. We all need to change our perspective towards the problem and handling things in a different manner.
How to avoid Negativity:-
Focus on solutions,not problems – After getting in a problem we should try to see through each possible solution rather than stressing about the problem that why or how did it happened. So it’s better to look forward to the solution because every problem has a solution.
Stay away from negative environment – This is a fact that whatever we see or hear everyday has a direct impact on our lives. Today our day starts with social media, we read different disturbing posts or watch different depressing videos which directly emerge negativity in us. So we need to distance us from these types of post.
Surround with positive people and communicate – Being around good people is important for our mental health as they bring good and positive energy. So we need to talk to and spend time with those who help us to bring smile on our face rather to them who spread negativity.
Stop Stressing and Start believing – It is much harder to do than it sounds but just go with the flow, don’t overthink about things you don’t have control with. Also start believing that everything is possible – as it is, we just have to keep working on it.
Don’t React instantly. Respond calmly – This is one I need to work with too. When our opinion doesn’t match with others or when we hear illogical things we react instantly and we say harsh things. In such situations it’s better to wait and be calm and then say. Responding is always better than reacting.
Everything starts and ends in our mindset. We need to train our mind with positive thoughts. It's also important to have negative thoughts as a human being because it let us know how much difference we can create in our lives by opting for positive attitude. But it's our responsibilities not to let this negativity make a home inside.
We are surrounded around different types of people. Among them , we get to choose someone with whom we decide to spend our life. Well sometime this decisions don’t look good ahead in future but still we try hard to continue it. Here is a short story of Aisha who suffers from a bad relationship but continues to give one last chance to her husband.
“Give me one last chance, It won’t be repeated.” He begged.
This is just like every time.
“Do I need to abide all this just because I am married to him?” Aisha asked to herself.
Since the day Ryan started abusing her, she is repeatedly giving him the last chance which he begs for each day after exploiting her. These were chances or opportunities to bring it on again and again , she keeps imagining. But what…
We are surrounded around different types of people. Among them , we get to choose someone with whom we decide to spend our life. Well sometime this decisions don’t look good ahead in future but still we try hard to continue it. Here is a short story of Aisha who suffers from a bad relationship but continues to give one last chance to her husband.
“Give me one last chance, It won’t be repeated.” He begged.
This is just like every time.
“Do I need to abide all this just because I am married to him?” Aisha asked to herself.
Since the day Ryan started abusing her, she is repeatedly giving him the last chance which he begs for each day after exploiting her. These were chances or opportunities to bring it on again and again , she keeps imagining. But what she could do, her parents too asked her to grant her husband one last chance to fix his fault.
“Does this last chance journey have any border.”
She remembers how she convinced her parents to get married to her love Ryan. She remembers how much they both used to love each other and promise to stick until last breathe but everything got changed slowly. The man who used to admire her beauty is now destroying her face by beating her. Still she is giving him one last chance because she loves him.
He slept with his female co-worker, but she had to give him one last chance because she was carrying his baby.
At times she wanted to end this relationship but she was afraid what would people talk about her and also about her little daughter.
She endured everything for the right to come , continued giving him the chances which he never justified for.
She was ready with all the last chances until the day came when her daughter was also tortured by her father , until the day when her princess was slapped by her father and until when the daughter asked her “Why are we living with such a monster mama.”
WHY? This is the question every person going through such circumstances needs to ask oneself. Why in the name of marriage one has to put own dignity on stake?
A relationship requires equal effort from both sides. It is based on trust and love. If someone is putting his/her all effort and not receiving same it’s no more worth to continue such relationship.
This is not for a particular gender or group , anyone feeling or going through these situations are requested to end the relationship for their betterment. If one person is making the same mistake repeatedly that means he or she is habituated to it and have taken the other for granted. Letting these people to leverage your love and care , you don’t only hurt yourself but also to your closed ones. So here is the time to stop granting the chances. It’s better to give yourself a chance to move and grow.
Don’t let someone get comfortable with disrespecting you.
Thanks for reading this. I would love to receive your valuable comments and also suggestions.
Happy New Year!! I know I am little late but it’s okay to wish if you still feel it I guess.
I am here to share a new picture about new year which I got to hear about from one of my sweet friend.Everyone around has a different perspective about a thing and when you listen them you feel they are also so correct.
As I told this in my last blog I live in U.S and have no right to work. So to keep me engaged and also to improve my communication skills I go to Toastmaster club. This wednesday we had a meeting almost after a month because of those holiday seasons. After the meeting I got to talk with Elina whom I wished new year and asked how did she celebrated her new year.
“I don’t celebrate New Year, for me it’s like any other day. For me it’s like a change of digit.” I got an unexpected reply.
“Why so?” I was still curious to hear from her.
“Because January does’nt seem to be have anything new. Everything is desiccated. There is no colour around us. No blooms, everything is dried off.”
“For me New starts when springs come.” She continued. “When the tres get new leaves, when there is blossom, when everything around us looks happy.”
I was lifted by her explanation and thought she is so correct. I was glad I had this conversation with her.
As I said before we get to discover new things from others as we see from their point of view which might be different but so unique in other way.
Thanks for reading this, kindly leave your helpful comment and also suggestion for me if any.
I am Anjali Burnwal and from India. I am a fun loving and an extrovert person but also sometime a shy kind of girl. Well a girl or woman whatever suits as I am 23+ and married.
I am still a child from inside as my husband says. I love travelling, learning new things(but not fond of trying it everytime), talking, eating, dancing(which sometimes looks like hopping) , reading, talking and being clicked.
I completed my graduation in B.Com in 2017 and wanted to pursue M.B.A but somehow got married in 2018. Now I am doing distance M.B.A from Amity University.
Well I currently live in US without any job and sometimes gets extremely bore. My husband works here in U.S.A and he is in H1 visa. I am on dependent visa and so this is the reason why I can’t work here.
My husband suggests me a lot of ideas to get me involve in some productive things. One day he suggested me “Why don’t you start writing a blog?”
And my reaction was “Blog? Really..? What I will write there?”
He continued ” Yes, you can give it a try . Write about yourself, your hobbies, your travel diaries or whatever you like”
I was still in confusion but I told him I will try.
So, after a month of that conversation when I was really upset of wasting my time by watching televisions and all I thought of blog writing. I did some researches about it , went through different videos about how to start a blog , fished among some of the sites and taken suggestions from my friend who is a blogger and finally starting it here.
As I am here I just want to tell you I will try to continue it making entertaining. I will write about my country, my travel stories, my cooking experiences and etc etc… Thanks for reading this.